1. #rtmpdump.force = true / done, but it still won't play ESPN, however two things happen. One, it used a different codec ffmpeg (please see 1 disabled # logs) and my bandwidth was put back to normal after failed attempt, it spiked at the "play" and then few seconds when down
2. replace extras\bin\rtmpdump.exe with rtmpdump.exe and enabled rtmpdump.force = true / done, see "2 enable rtmpdump" log for details. This time about 50% of the bandwidth was used, but it was never released, until I quit PMS
3. after performing last step "replace extras\bin\rtmpdump.exe and copy librtmp.dll, libeay32.dll, libssl32.dll from XBMC\system" - i didn't see any content to play, only directory listing and inside final folder "transcoding" - no content, i loged in "3 copy librtmp"
[Edit] - step 3, no DLNA content was visible too
Thanks for all your help and will understand if you are tired of dealing with me