1. I uninstalled PS3 media player
2. I searched the register to get rit of all PSM keys but the uninstall program wiped them already away.
3. Deleted the folder.
4. Found the PS.conf file btw...it's in c:\program data\PS...I renamed that folder to keep my " old" conf file
5. I ran CCleaner
6. I uninstalled ALL java versions (had 1x6 and 2 versions of 7
7. I installed PSM
8. Installed latest java (7)
9. Ran the program!!