Side note for ya... that doesn't relate to what i'm asking. See the following as a literal line by line response to said post.
Basically going through the checklist of bullets, of what is/isn't problem.
Port issue, none, nothing is going live but pms,
Firewall of any form is disabled completely.
I can see the pms on ps3 np. I haven't forced any right or wrong ip, no need to.
Only one instance of pms, and javaw on tast manager, even after system reboot.
Only 1x live network interface presently. No "wrong" one at all.
See previous sentence for forced nic.
Permissions isn't problem. No AV, etc.
Taking long to register etc, it pulled itunes near instantly. I don't have to much there, under 1k songs, under 20 vids.
After UDP Broadcast.
Not firewall, not hamachi, not anything.
Router is allowing traffic,
Not linux, windows 7
Home network correctly setup.
Not subnet related, or anything similar.