I was browsing google to figure out why, even after restarting my PS3, it would not refresh the folders on my mediaserver ...
and then i stumbled upon PS3 Media Server .. browsed the site 3 minutes .. figured to give it a shot .. installed server + JAVA
5 minutes later it is up and running and it is working smoothly, this is really impressive .. I used to use XBMC on my xbox but it was getting outdated due not being able to stream HD content
Either way, to all developers on this project .. THANK YOU!! for your time & effort, it is much much appreciated, keep on going!